hopped upon this word from jer. hence, determined my blogwebbie. this acct w/o its webbie has been put on hold for quite awhile… i was so not inspired.
i think i need lots of time and understanding for myself;that i’m not doing sth when i’m supposed to.
i hope they’re not excuses that hinder the growth of the r/s, that distance from jer.
the truth is r/s is never a bed of roses. there are challenges we are yet to face tgt. it’s mostly about working tgt, opening up to each other, loving ownself to love him better. one of e pt is after challenges, it comes stronger (but doesn mean its flawless). probably at a certain pt of time, life… they can be the ‘perfect’ r/s..
i’m happy that i found those in Us. but of cos, as i said…there are always flaws. (:
at the end of the day it’s always love, faith, belief. cheesy but true.
once read an article from psy mag. it swallowed me in with one question…
“Ask yourself: When you thought you are giving to a person, are you actually giving or asking?”
in situations like, you are concerned for someone to the pt of not giving freedom(ask for assurance)… you thought you are there for the person somewhat (when truthfully, you are just had ur whole share of problems).
i guess it all boils down to sensitivity…patience… understanding… and the usual qualities of one party of a r/s. connection and chemistry are a gd startoff of cos.
Can you actually believe that all these realizations & lessons we learnt abt r/s.. they just apply to every single r/s? friends…family. we are just referring to love ones at most time…when actual fact, it’s humanity.
sadly…interestingly… we just dont score points easily in r/s… it’s so..human..
